TIP: 6 things you need to know about personal space

TIP: It's not a good idea to touch a special needs person unless you know they like 

to be touched by you. Some are very sensitive to touch and personal space. If they 

reach a hand out, respond with your hand. Don't assume that means a full-on hug

 will be tolerated. Let them lead the contact. 

Stacey and Little Bro

                                                   

6 things you need to know about personal space:

1) The 10 mile radius: Some people have a very large "personal space" boundary. They don't like to be approached, stood or sat next to. The best thing you can do is pause and look at their body language. If they seem receptive to you, you might reach out to shake a hand or take a small step closer and watch for a response. 

2) Look but don't touch: Some might be okay with you being close to them, but don't want their possessions touched. Respect this.  No touchy. 

3) Free head locks: Some may have no personal boundaries. They not only like you to be close and touchy, but they might instigate touch not typically appropriate. It's okay to say to them something like "no hugging, but let's shake hands".

4) Yes, no, maybe so: Some are just down right unpredictable. They may hug you to death one day and scream when you approach the next day. Just go with the flow! 

5) Speak my language: Body language isn't always understood by everyone so use words and cues to get your point across.  

6) It's not me, it's the sensory:  Realize that sensory issues can't just be ignored. If you're unsure of what to do, it's better to keep a little distance and either ask a family member or wait to see what the person instigates first.